It is so tempting to reunite with someone you broke up with. Yet we seldom understand that this temptation is so temporary and deceiveing. Breakup happens with number of reasons.
Reason 1. No efforts. Either you or your gf/bf stopped putting efforts in a relationship. You think that relationship is all have to do with heart. Actually that is mood swings. Don’t expect other to be on the same line as you are on this. “You have to put efforts to make it work.”
Reason 2. Distance. Miscommunication happens alot in this and the sad part is that you don’t have a chance to correct it. Either it is too late or you aren’t able to communicate it properly on phone. It just leaves a “scar” in the relationship.
Reason 3. Not sure. You or your bf/gf is not sure what you want from this relationship. Better you sort it out first by stating out clearly that you aren’t sure about it and you need time. Spilling out bitterness or blaming them won’t work, because it means you have burned the bridge. There is no turning back after that.
There many reasons.. either they cheated on you or you have your own unique reason. You don’t want to get back and hence to deal with it..
Solution 1. No contact rule. Although it’s seems so cliché thing to do, but you just can’t be friends with your ex. All the bitterness and your beautiful past moments together will burn the bridge of friendship.
Solution 2. Be with friends. Being with friends will help you to interact with them which will take your mind off from those hurtful things or your ex.
Solution 3. Get rid of stuff. All those gifts, things which ignite your hurtful feelings: Either donate it or put it at some place that you know you won’t open it for years to come.
Solution 4. Keep on living. You don’t need someone to be happy. You have to keep on living and be happy and upright as you always seems to be.
If you still feel down or depressed or you don’t know how to get over it. Just think that you have to take it one day at a time. There is nothing wrong with you and there is nothing wrong with that person. It was just bound to happen. You forgive him/her and move on.. that’s the best way to heal.